Unsung Perfume Hero: House of Matriarch Bittersweet Symphony (Christi Meshell) 2015~Review + The Verve, Ennui and the 90s Draw

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Christi Meshell of HoM

In 2015, Christi Meshell, perfumer and elemental force behind House of Matriarch, released to the public a very personal perfume made for a private client, who incidentally was recently married (fittingly, both brides wore black): Bittersweet Symphony.

 

Anne Hathaway for Interview September 2011 Photography by Marcus Piggott and Mert Alas

Anne Hathaway for Interview September 2011 Photography by Marcus Piggott and Mert Alas (reminds MC of Christi)

Part of the House’s Liquid Music collection, and one of Christi’s lesser known  fragrances; the complex aroma was inspired by The Verve’s 1997 song of the same name and encapsulates a glorious ennui which hallmarked the “naughties” (90’s). . Allow me to refresh your memory:

Bitter_Sweet_Symphony Richard Ashcroft 

Bittersweet Symphony video Richard Ashcroft

‘Cause it’s a bittersweet symphony, this life

Try to make ends meet

You’re a slave to money then you die…

…But I’m a million different people

From one day to the next

I can’t change my mold…

Tanga Moreau photographed by Peter Lindbergh... 97

Tanga Moreau photographed by Peter Lindbergh  1997

While I find myself still undecided about the lyrics of the “urban hymn”- Bittersweet Symphony Liquid Perfume takes me on a decidedly tender 5+ hour journey through my memory banks. Five hours. Minimum.     Specifically designed by House of Matriarch to take it’s time to develop on the skin- Bittersweet Symphony is as life- it takes a bit of time to evolve from bitterness to something softer and sweet.

Natalia by Lindsey Drennan for Fashion Gone Rogue

Natalia by Lindsey Drennan for Fashion Gone Rogue

Taking another cue from 90’s zeitgeist, Bittersweet Symphony contains odd folk raw materials- henna, dong-quai and spikenard open the melody in a way that, yes, is “bitter” but not off putting. In fact, these plants themselves are more given to pacify than repel- yet their aromas are mostly unrecognized and certainly underutilized in perfumery. A certain sort of olfactory shock is bound to ensue. Sort of the way when you saw your first body piercing you were somewhere between disgusted and fascinated, if not a bit turned on.

90s fashion

90s  fashion image by Bernadette Newbury

Bittersweet Dutch processed cocoa gives literal meaning to the name, although bears no resemblance to semi-sweet morsels. Christi asks it to “break it’s mold”- which it does with the harmonizing of “a chorus of blended teas” and refrain of spices. Eventually, there are woods, smoky or smoldering, aided by oud and amber- offering tenderness to the symphony, as even the orchestral section of the song assuages and brings a soaring lightness to the angst ridden.

Notes: henna, dong-quai, spikenard, teas, Dutch chocolate, woods, amber, oud

-Einsof, Natural Perfume Editor

*disclosure: my sample was provided by House of Matriarch for review.

Art Direction: Michelyn who is a 90s chick

bittersweet symphony perfume House of Matriarch

With thanks to House of Matriarch, we have 15mL Bittersweet edp ($88) for a registered reader anywhere in the world.  To be eligible please leave a comment with what you enjoyed about Einsof’s review, where you live, if you know this song by The Verve and if you have a favorite House of Matriarch fragrance we would love to know. Draw closes September 1, 2016

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36 comments

  • I LOLd at the body piercing imagery; my tongue-piercing-envious teen self from the 90’s would not have even believed some of the body mods available today! As for the fragrance, I am definitely intrigued by the henna, dong-quai and spikenard.

    “Bittersweet Symphony” was definitely part of the soundtrack to my teen years, and this review just cemented my need for a new pair of Docs this fall. 😉 I have not had a chance to sniff any offerings from House of Matriarch yet.

    Thanks for review, and the chance!

  • Sounds wonderful! I love the bottle and the notes (never heard of a henna note in fragrances before), and the quote “but I’m a million different people”… (didn’t know this song, but I’m fascinated by the lyrics). I’d love to try the scent.

    (EU)

  • fazalcheema says:

    I smiled while reading the review because I came to know about the song Bittersweet Symphony during my early years as a college student. I just saw someone watching the song video and got intrigued. The song really impressed me and I would watch it on repeat some days. Like the song, this perfume has a wide range of unusual noes.
    My favorite HoM pefume is Orca. Thanks a lot for the generous draw. I am in the US.

  • Ahahaha oh my god this song was such a big deal! Overplayed for sure, but definitely good. I would love to try this perfume because I love smoky woods and bitter notes! And House of Matriarch is on my list, I was actually reading reviews of her scents online just today! I live in Canada.

  • Umm…no I don’t know the Verve song, I don’t even know Verve. Whatever a henna note is that’s intriguing in and of itself. A“ …chorus of blended teas…” That’s something I’d like to be wearing this winter. fka Blackbird will always be a favorite from this house. 🙂 USA

  • Of course I know this song. I remember that sexy walk of Richard Ashcroft in that MTV video. Once I was invited for some foreign CEO crazy house party, and all I can remember was that song. That was back in a day in Russia, As for perfume; bittersweet combination is what I am “into” for many years, and it sometimes reminds me my life. (Canada.Toronto)

  • Very interesting article and shout out to The Verve since I have heard of them. I’m intrigued by the henna noted in the fragrance and the beautiful bottle. My favorite HOM scents are Coco Blanc and Sex Magic. I live in the US and thanks for the draw! 🙂

  • Hikmat Sher Afridi says:

    Thanks for the article and review.
    A very personal perfume made……”Bittersweet Symphony”……..then this is something very very special!
    The song lyrics amazed me but if someone would walk with that attitude in the video, will never make ends meet. LOL
    In Pakistan Henna is considered very auspicious for weddings & religious occasions like Eid. So as a note in perfume it is special.
    My favorite from the HoM: Black No 1 and Sex Magic
    Thanks for the generosity & draw.
    Peshawar, Pakistan

  • Of course I know the song from The Verve, music was my live back in the middle of the ’90. The fragrance sounds like something I’d wear and I like the fact that they listed “dutch chocolate” as an ingredient; it’s not just chocolate, it’s dutch! I live in Europe.

  • Hold still my beating heart!!!! So many good things about this perfume and review! The Verve is basically all I hear in my head when I remember the 90s ( and a young Reese Witherspoon falling in love) and henna in a perfume as a note!! Bittersweet Symphony promises to be a maelstrom of so many emotions bottled and I do trust Christi Meshell to conjure the right notes for this one as she always does! My favourite House of Matriarch is the glorious Ambre Vie!
    Thank you for this draw and lovely revies( gorgeous images!)
    I live in France.

  • Very nice review, like always. I do not know that song, actually I have never heard about that. But must be a nice one. I have only tried one perfume from House of Matriarch, and that is Coco Blanc. I very very love that fragrance. So beautiful one. Thank you for the draw! I live in Europe.

  • Great review. Sounds like a must-try!I like this description: “Bittersweet Symphony contains odd folk raw materials- henna, dong-quai and spikenard open the melody in a way that, yes, is “bitter” but not off putting. In fact, these plants themselves are more given to pacify than repel- yet their aromas are mostly unrecognized and certainly underutilized in perfumery. A certain sort of olfactory shock is bound to ensue. Sort of the way when you saw your first body piercing you were somewhere between disgusted and fascinated, if not a bit turned on”. I live in Europe.

  • Another one to chime in with “great review!” Sounds like a scent to stir my soul. Love the whole review, the scent’s notes, the photos, all of it. I still haven’t tried any HOM! With these notes, I bet this’d be my fave. In the US oh and yes I know the song!

  • I’m curious about the henna note in Bittersweet. I have dyed my hair with henna for decades. But now I’m just too grey and it’s just too time-consuming. I actually liked the earthy scent of henna. And yes, of course I now that song, love the violins. I’m in EU. Thanks for the draw!

  • The unusual combination of notes sound very interesting! I’ve never heard of a perfume with henna as a note before.I have never tried a house of matriarch fragrance and would love to try one. I have never heard of the song the verve either. Thanks for the chance! I’m in the US

  • I am intrigued by a Henna note. I do not recall the song, but I’m sure my30-something kids dug it. I would love to try this fragrance. I live in the USA.

  • You had me with the awesome pictures already but when i read ” Bittersweet Symphony contains odd folk raw materials” i was already sort of jumping of curiosity and then the next phrase “A certain sort of olfactory shock”
    SOS, hahaha!!!
    And then i read that there is Dutch chocolate in it and i am a Dutch woman addicted to dark bitter chocolate, LOL!
    I need a doctor now for I’m over-excited!!
    I LOVE weird, dirty, shocking and dark so this one must be the perfect match for me!

    i have never had the privilege of testing any fragrance of House of Matriarch but heard only positive about your fragrances. I would be very grateful if i get my hands on that 15ml bottle!

    I live in the Netherlands obviously 😉

  • the fragrance notes look stunning would love to smell Bittersweet. I love the song by the verve. I live in America. my favorite House of Matriarch fragrance is Devotion which I first won a sample from cafleurebon.com

  • I do not know the song by The Verve so it will not help me understand the perfume. The House of Matriarch does not seem to be the place for a floral lover like me to explore but I think the opposite may be true. I tried Orca and it’s gorgeous! There may be others hiding in the House of Matriarch for me to love. USA.

  • Diana Devlin says:

    Love that this fragrance was inspired by the Verve’s song! I loved that band in the 90’s! This fragrance sounds so interesting with the notes henna and dong-quai. I’m trying to imagine what those notes would smell like in this creation. I don’t have much experience with House of Matriarch but I have tried Coco Blanc and absolutely love it.

    I live in the U.S.

  • I am a child of the 90s, so I really enjoyed reading this review. Without a doubt it’s the most nostalgic decade for me. Oddly enough, I actually don’t know the Verve song. I guess at the time I was into other kinds of music. I can usually imagine what a scent smells like from reading the notes, but this one has me stumped! I’m so curious about it. It sounds sultry and mysterious. I haven’t been able to find House of Matriarch where I live, but will have to keep an eye out! I live in Canada, thanks.

  • hugogrotius says:

    I agree with Einsof observation that oud is tender note, many of connoisseurs believes that oud is sharp, strong and animalic- of course it can be, if it’s being used wrongly. So I am very intrested in this face of oud with cocoa and henna note-never heard of such note in perfume, so I can only imagine it, because as a little boy I used to get a henna tattoo on warm summer days to impresse girls.
    I did know the song , but never knew the name. I don’t have any favorite among Christi’s work, because there non available in my Country, which is Poland (EU).
    Thank you for the draw! Best wishes!

  • This pefume( I believe it’s eau de parfum concetration) would be very intresting adding to my collection, since I don’t have any gourmand fragrances( is it gourmand fragrance after alll?- I didn’t get that from the review..cocoa and henna sounds gourmand alike). Anyway I can already imagine it somehow thanks to the captivating photograps! Well that’s very nice! I didn’t know the song, since I was just 1 year old when song came out. My favorite from House of Matriarch is Devotion! I love it! I love in EU

  • This is one of my favorite songs. I hope I’m going to like the scent as much, which is probable, as I am a big fan of woody and ambery notes. I haven’t tried any House of Matriarch perfumes. I live in the EU.

  • “A certain sort of olfactory shock is bound to ensue.”- I am all about that! Please count me in hahaha. Yes, I did know the song and I like it. Sadly I don’t know any of the House of Matriarch perfumes. I live in EU

  • I do remember this song and I like it… Urban hymn – I think its proper name. I have never heard about using henna and spikenard in perfumery but I am sure any fragrant herbs are able create great scent if mixed properly. I would like to try this fragrance! I live in EU

  • “Bittersweet Dutch processed cocoa gives literal meaning to the name, although bears no resemblance to semi-sweet morsels. Christi asks it to “break it’s mold”- which it does with the harmonizing of “a chorus of blended teas” and refrain of spices. Eventually, there are woods, smoky or smoldering, aided by oud and amber- offering tenderness to the symphony, as even the orchestral section of the song assuages and brings a soaring lightness to the angst ridden.” – this sounds so interesting! I can imagine this is not a ‘pretty’ fragrance, rather a nostalgic and mysterious one. I’d love to try it! EU.

  • Cocoa note is one of my favorite, and I love this unique, nostalgic climate of the 90s. My favorite Matriarch scent is Albatross and Bittersweet Symphony, although completely different, sounds like it could be as airy and romantic. I love the photos. Thanks for the draw, I am in the EU.

  • I loved the way this review opened up like the perfume itself, slowly building and revealing layer upon layer with its influences showcased. I’m intrigued and would love to try this scent! I’ve not had the pleasure of sampling Matriarch’s new line but Bittersweet Symphony would be a melodious introduction!
    In the US. Thank you!d9ea

  • House of Matriarch is one of the most intriguing perfume houses I would love to try, but I haven’t been lucky so far. The idea of a perfume compatible to Bittersweet Symphony is a brilliant one. I like the review and I like the 90s because it was the decade when I was growing up and discovering music and perfumes. I find these photos so sentimental.

    Thank you Einsof for this review. I live in Europe.

  • “Bittersweet Symphony is as life- it takes a bit of time to evolve from bitterness to something softer and sweet.”

    Say no more. I have to try this. EU.

  • I’m all in for a “certain sort of olfactory shock” with bitter spikenard and henna. I have been using so many elegant, tamed flowery and sweet fragrances this summer so it’s time for something more harsh and unusual. Matriarch fragrances are new to me and I look forward to try a lot of them. I like the philosophy of the brand. I am in Europe and thank you for this draw.

  • Do I know Bittersweet Symphony by The Verve? Of course I do. This is the song of my teenage years. Valid and meaningful until today. I really cannot imagine, despite my best efforts, how this Bittersweet Symphony could smell like. I have many bittersweet fragrances and they are always dominated either by sweetness or by bitterness. I wonder how it is with this one?

    I have never tried House of Matriarch and I am very curious. Thanks for the review. Greetings from Norway!

  • The review sounds fantastic. I didn’t know this song and haven’t tried anything from The House of Matriarch, but I would very much like to do so. They have so many interesting fragrances. I live in the EU and thank you for the draw.

  • cinnamon tree says:

    I’d love to try this bittersweet henna scent, I like that it looks like a perfume which doesn’t belong to some popular, “easy to wear” category. Love the bottle design! I am in the EU.